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Cancer Birthstones: Which Stones and Talismans Suit You
Cancer feels everything and bruises easily, so a talisman is about shelter: keeping fine feelings safe, staying above your own worry and not soaking up other people's moods like a sponge.
Stones for Cancer
Moonstone - the stone of the Moon and patron of Cancer: it guards your feelings and settles you gently
Pearl - holds your inner balance and the warmth of home
Selenite - clears off the borrowed emotion that Cancer picks up so easily
Aquamarine - quiets anxiety and helps you not to go under with your own worry
Opal - strengthens the intuition Cancer already has plenty of
Why these stones for Cancer
Tradition ties a stone to the sign through its ruler, the Moon, and through its element, water - hence a palette that runs lunar, pearly and blue. In that same tradition the Moon pairs with silver. There is no single canon: one school puts moonstone at the head of the list, another opal, and saying so is more honest than hiding it.
Hardness and care: what it changes
The softest of the set is selenite: 2 on the Mohs scale, gypsum. Sand, hot water and perfume wear down anything at 2 for good, so the place for selenite is a pendant or a pocket, and not a ring on the working hand. The hardest is aquamarine: 7.5-8, beryl, and everyday scratching does nothing to it. As talismans selenite and aquamarine are worth the same - hardness only talks about care.
How to choose and wear it
For Cancer the stone is a shield for feeling. Selenite and pearl when you have taken on other people's moods, aquamarine when the worry runs over. Keep moonstone and opal for intuition and a soft kind of quiet. Wear it near the heart, on a long chain or as a brooch high on the chest. It will not turn trouble away. What it does is remind you to look after yourself: you feel the stone and remember that another person's mood is not yours to carry.
FAQ
Three questions that keep coming back about the stones of Cancer, from the lunar, pearly and blue palette to the hardness.
Which stones suit Cancer: moonstone, pearl or selenite?
Tradition links five of them to it: moonstone, pearl, selenite, aquamarine, opal. All of them hold the palette of the water element - lunar, pearly and blue - and each supports something different, detailed above. Start with whichever answers something in you, pearl as readily as moonstone.
Which is the talisman stone of Cancer, moonstone or another?
The one named first is moonstone, at the head of the list: 6-6.5 on the Mohs scale, feldspar. A stone turns nothing aside by itself, it works as an anchor - and that anchor is held by the Moon, together with water. Take the one that answers something in you, whether that turns out to be moonstone or opal.
Can you wear selenite every day?
Look at the hardness. Selenite holds 2 on the Mohs scale, gypsum: on a working hand the wear shows within two years, around the neck it never does. Aquamarine, at 7.5-8, takes daily life without flinching. Street dust scratches anything that stays under seven, and aquamarine stays above it.
These stones follow the sun sign Cancer. The whole sky, though - Moon, ascendant and planets - is yours alone, and the character of Cancer gets its own read.
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